Well, it isn't like a really moved anything, you know? I consolidated the contents of two drawers of a nightstand into one. I intended to tell her this evening, but she discovered it before I saw her, so that didn't work out so well!
I may have "made it up to her" a little this afternoon. I did some more weeding. She has done some today, a lot more than I did, but I did do a reasonable amount. And I started while she was not out there, so it wasn't like I was doing it out of guilt.
Yes GF, she is a control freak, and you are right, there is no way I was going to do it her way. And yes, she holds grudges, long enough that I can't even remember the original event. Good stuff, she forgets, bad stuff, she remembers forever. OR stuff that she chooses to see as bad.
I am seriously working on the room now! I can tell the difference, I think by the end of the week there may be some hope. The bathroom is going to be a pain, but it can be done. The closet is going to be horrid. It has a lot of shelves, and has been the place that accumulates everything from the moment we moved in to the house. Hopefully that means a lot of it goes straight out once I get in there!
I was thinking yesterday that I might take the opportunity while I am cleaning the room to rearrange the whole thing. Without saying a word about it first. I was thinking about this before one of you mentioned it. What do you think?
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