Advice-Husband moved in with OW(I'm a Newby)

[Trying2live]

Well keep us informed with all the hurricane stuff. I understand. With a hurricane you can prepare and keep safe but with and affair there's no safety really.
I'm not sure if I would go see the apt. I mean that's not really what you want and are in agreement to. If he mentions it just be nonchalant and say maybe something like oh good for you I'm glad you found something you like and try not to be moved. These guys want control and attention. It seems like he sure talks about this apt a a lot. Why? What is his motivation? I mean if your gonna do it just pick one and do it why keep telling this to your wife unless you want some kind of reaction. I'd keep it light cheery confident-oh great glad you found something and talk about your new class your gonna take or something. That's just my thoughts, could be wrong. Keep GAL and creating that new you with those changes that you talked about in your inventory. No one is perfect so don't condemn yourself about it that's not a reason for an affair, there's always the route of communication. Our spouse's could have communicated at any time and allowed us the opportunity for change.