I think you're doing the right things, Sleeper. You need to NOT revolve your life around her any more.

I sense you and I and Trusting are in a similar place...and I also think we have all seen a little bit of surprise from our spouses.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D