How can I "show" him when I get these type of messages "I take D home and off I go. Be there areound 8". He said that he wasn't going to stay because I'd be there and when I asked him about the computer issue he said we'd solve it tomorrow.
In our M he said I didn't think enough about him. Especially when he'd have a late class. Sometimes he'd arrive home hungry and I didn't have anything cooked. I was angry with his attitude and never bothered to listen to him and have something ready for him to eat. Now, I offer him to stay to eat dinner with us and he doesn't want to. It's usually "I'm good".
I guess he's not ready for the meals together. We were doing that pretty regularly about 6 weeks ago and now it's stopped again. I understand why but it still hurts.
He also said I wasn't appreciative enough that nothing was ever good enough for me. I see it now and I've always been a little spoiled. Being spoiled doesn't work well when your 37 YO does it?
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
