Ok that is fair...but now lets say that once you are on the drug, you no longer care if it is mind-blowing or chore-sex once per month. All you would need is a simple release/orgasm once a month or so, and you could do it yourself and be ok with that, too.
See you are only saying that you would insist on the mind-blowing once-per-month sex, because you are HD, you have had mind-blowing sex before, and you right NOW feel you can't live without it.
But I am suggesting a hypothetical situation where you would not miss it, not long for it, not even think about it.
(ie: in the matrix...take the blue pill, or the red pill...)