Cinco - just a hypothetical question...a slightly different question than the one I posed above....
If you could take a pill that would squealch your sex-drive, down to the point of your wife's, so that you did not have mis-matched libidos, would you do it? For the sake of answering the question, assume that you would not feel desire or urges and you would not feel "deprived" of those desires. They would just simply be gone from your awareness and you never thought about sex anymore.