You sound like you are doing great Cinders. I would say that your psychologist is giving you great advice (and could apply to any of us).

And I bet Pluto is awesome! I am glad you got him.

Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God