Sunny, You sound much more centered...good for you.
Originally Posted By: Sunny
So, the papers just join the "offer" in a secure place. Until I get the real deal, I won't be signing & returning anything. I have plans for tonight, so won't be here when he takes our S out.
Exactly. Just let it all lie and use the time to figure out what you want.
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I guess it was the tipping point the other night, because I don't harbor, or even yearn for a R with him.
Unfortunately, it is inevitable that you get to this point. I am actually at the point that my worst fear is that my W will decide she wants to try to work things out at this point.
Once you get to the point that you are truly happy without them, it is SOOOO hard to imagine throwing yourself back into all of the drama and trauma of a MLC spouse.
Maybe you will feel differently after the requisite 48 hours, but eventually, we all get to this point. Give it some time and see how you feel...and how his behavior changes.
SD
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread