Alright: I'm ready to stop squirming now and wish I hadn't said anything about it. We just get very personal here sometimes, and whether I like it or not, it's part of who I am, and effects my marriage and sex life.
That said, however, I keep my so-called disability incidental to my professional and private life, where it belongs. And so it should remain incidental here: I'm still the same Bagheera who's been around here these last many months now.
So stay cool about it guys.
Thanks,
-- B.
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007