I'm a typical guy that likes to be catered to. Simple things like offering a drink (remember the ice cold beer comment in Sep's thread?). I love that stuff.
I'm not much of a talker myself, but I love to listen to her talk. I usually stir up something to get her talking bout herself so I can listen. That probably doesn't pertain to others, because many people like to be listened to...maybe you can come up with some conversation starters so that you can listen to him? I don't know...
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
Thanks Floyd..def. going to buy beer now. XH likes to sit in silence sometimes. He's not a big talker and sometimes tells me I talk too much lol. I find that if I don't talk much he'll talk.
Dinner will be warm on the stove when they get home so hopefully he'll eat something.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Good luck later Jen...he's still there isnt he, even if hes gone back to protecting himself a little. Those DB coaches are great arent they!? Wishing you luck for later, smile sweetly even if he does want to dash off!
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
Jen, What did you two do during your courtship? You probably killed him with kindness then, so recreate it for now but better. I know you know what makes his heart melt, be his beloved again. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.