Accepting something.. takes more effort than just knowing about it. This does take time. Sometimes it takes longer.. when you dwell on it every day. The hardest thing to explain is how to accept where you are in life.. and move forward. It seems impossible to do while you live it.. and so easy when you have gone thru it. It really does become a decision you make.. people make it on their own "timeframe".
This is so true. I know that once I am past this part of my life, I'll look back and think...I wasted a lot of time dwelling on HIS life and not on my own. It's hard to grieve the loss of your M. It hurts.
Right after I posted last. One of the guys at work was talking to me and said "are those your wedding rings? How do you ever plan on getting laid if you're flashing those around?" Getting laid is not my goal, but it was interesting that he mentioned the rings right after I posted about them. Hmmmm. A sign, maybe, that it might be time?
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M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him
