Yes, I do have a L who has all the necessary info, with the exception of complete financial #'s from recent tax returns.
She wants me to wait until he files to start anything on our end.
I've checked the new filing's daily & there are none from him.
So, the papers just join the "offer" in a secure place. Until I get the real deal, I won't be signing & returning anything. I have plans for tonight, so won't be here when he takes our S out.
What the purpose was to giving me something that changes really nothing, is anyone's guess. Pressure from OW to finally serve me papers, financial, who knows. I've had no contact with him since the other night, with the exception of calling him yesterday afternoon to ask if he was moving into the house a few blocks away, as I saw there were cleaners there & it was newly vacant. So, I asked the question, he answered no & off the phone. He didn't sound so good.
I, on the other hand, am distancing myself & making plans to do something nice for myself & enjoy my kids. Although I care about him as the father of my child, I guess it was the tipping point the other night, because I don't harbor, or even yearn for a R with him. That could change o/c, although I don't expect it to anytime soon, if at all. So much damage has been done.
I'm off to make it a great day....wishes for a wonderful one for you all also.
