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Hi Jen,

Thanks for posting about your session with Vernetta! Good to see that you have some clear goals in mind, and I'm happy that she sees the positives in your situation too.

Sounds like you came away feeling better about the sitch.

That's progress!

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Hi W2G and ITH!

I have been feeling fairly positive these past couple of days and especially after talking to Vernetta yesterday.

XH was here to pick up D to take her to the club again. You should see her tan! She's as brown as a berry my Mom would say :). He waited for her to finish BFast and off they went. I spoke to him a few minutes ago. He asked if I had class and what he should do about Ds dinner. I told him I'd cook something before I went to class and they could both eat when they returned. Nothing major but he'll be here when I get home and said we'd check out something that are pending tonight. So I guess no running out the door tonight \:\)

He told me he was working on a document. I asked if it was a translation and he said no just a little documnet he's been working on. Odd because he was so sly.


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Originally Posted By: JenInVen

He told me he was working on a document. I asked if it was a translation and he said no just a little documnet he's been working on. Odd because he was so sly.


It doesn't matter!! You have no clue what it is and there is no point in guessing. \:\)

Looks like tonight you get a chance to kill him with some kindness!! Good Luck!


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Hi Sep! To tell you the truth I don't really care what he's working on. It was kind of funny because he's always so sly. Typical Scorpio ;\) I used to joke around with him a tell him he was sly all the time.


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Now what does a woman who wants to kill their H with kindness do? Wear? Act?


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Lmao ohhh I know H was always very "secretive" even about stupid little things but he has a tattoo on his back of the logo of this company that he is trying to build and it says "Siempre Pregunta" which (for everone else) means Always Question. So as usual he said I asked too many questions and I told him I was only following his advice and touched his back and said siempre pregunta. He just cracked up laughing and said "good one, you got me on that one."

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hmmm...

I'm probably not the one to ask right now (and neither is Lola)...


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LMAO good one!


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If someone was kind to you Floyd what would the say or do?


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I think you should always look your best!! Cute outfit, suttle makeup to highlight the eyes.

How to kill him with kindness...hmm..I guess act very friendly yet non-chalant. Do not make it seem like you "need" him to stay, if he does he does, if not ohhh well..Ciao!! Oh Oh try to give him beer too!!! ;\)

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