SD...you CANNOT FIX HER NOR CAN YOU FIX YOUR M. There is NOTHING you can do to change this...only things you can do to change YOU.

I guarantee you, that, if you start to grieve the loss of your marriage (get that book)...and let it go..not only will you feel better but you will gain strength. It is the ONLY chance you have....to move forward and onward and hope they see what they are losing.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;