how do you deal when spouse works with OP?

[Babygirl]

Thanks pup, I guess yeah I mean how do I deal with the latter.

In an email yesterday, he said there is no relationship. I think that is his way of saying he ended it, but I really dont know. He still doesnt see an EA as cheating, and I know i cant make him. and to be honest, I havent checked his phone to see if she is still calling in quite a while. I dont think he would quit his job, and I dont think I could ask him too, he started at the bottom,6 years ago, and is now the supervisor of his whole dept. His plan is to stay there for a few more years, and then go into management at Boeing. He worked hard for his postion, she worked for hers on her knees. LOL! ok, so do you know anyone who did a NC and still worked together? I mean, strictly work related run ins only?
the not taking me to the football thing, I am sure he was scared to death. But I am a lady and would NEVER do anything to embarress him infront of his coworkers, and many of them are my friends. Its trust, I have to decide if I can do it or not, and thats where I just plain SUCK! I quoted something you said in another post, about trust. the OW makes this whole deal a game, and she doesnt want to lose. If I felt this was a game and not a M worth saving, i could deal my hand, that would end up with both of them losing their jobs!