I mean seriously, he works with her! Everyday, in close proximity! Tomorrow, work football pool, first time in years he isnt taking me, why? because she is gonna be there!
How do you find trust if they see eachother everyday?
Not sure what you mean by "deal." If HE is willing to end the affair, and/or claims that he HAS, then you need to get him to agree to no-contact. If he can request a transfer, great, but if not, it will be necessary for him to get another job if he's serious about working at your marriage.
If he's promised no such thing, but the question is just how do YOU deal with the fact that he's in contact with her at work, that's another matter.
