Is he starting to come home?

[blindsided1]

Brokenhearted - I am just now reading about your sitch. There are a lot of similarities. I would love to be able to teach myself to detach better. I am conflicted as how to handle myself with H. There are days when I totally go NC and then there are days I reach out as a "friend" (today is one). We have a newborn so it's easy for me to find "reasons" to reach out to him. But, I know I shouldn't be. Or should I? I have no idea. This DB'ing stuff is NOT easy. But, I love what you said about detaching. Those are my sentiments exactly. I'm coming up on our 1 year of separation mark. Doesn't feel good knowing he and OW are about to celebrate their 1 year anniversary. They have talked of M and starting a family. Ouch, it hurts.

You're strong. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. Do for you and your Son. My heart goes out to you. I'll be checking up on you.