(((Lola))),

I'm so sorry you are feeling like this, like you are falling apart. You did say one positive thing in that post though, that the meeting with your H went well. I know that getting your car repossessed clearly overshadows the positive meeting, but it is one positive thing. I know losing your H is awful, horrible, and gut-wrenching, but I guess what I'm trying to say is that the positive meeting is still a step forward, a step that will hopefully lead him back to you.

We're all in the same awful boat, and I have to believe that it's for a reason. I have to believe that adversity makes us stronger. From your posts it sounds like you are such an amazing and strong person already, and I know that you CAN deal with this, and that you CAN get through it and have a positive outcome.

Thinking good thoughts for you...

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!