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Yenko,

Haven't read all of your sitch, but I see that my Texan friend H4H has mentioned the two of you in similar places, so I get a good idea.

This is without a doubt the most painful experience to go through and yet we have to face it with a PMA. Sure, we have done our part to get things where they are in each of our R's, but no excuse for what our WAS have done when there is an A - cuts through the core of what family is all about IMO.

I will read your entire sitch later. Sounds like I am also in the same boat as you and H4H with the exception that my W is still at home, sleeping in the same bed and I think trying to p*ss me off enuf to leave - ain't gonna happen, and she can't legally force it.

Not exactly the stuff dreams are made of, eh?

Stay strong