I am trying so hard to change this, reconnect with her, have a healthy SL with only her, I don't know if I can though. I don't know that she wants it or me again.
I need to be hit over the head with what I have done. I have hit myself plenty of times.
Cinco
You can reconnect.... She wants you or she wouldn't be with you. You don't need to be hit over the head , you need to forgive yourself and start on a new future I gave you a 2x4 cause you aren't putting yourself in her shoes. You are getting angry and letting that shadow over your thoughts. You need more Compassion.
It is in there somewhere. And the older Women comment. she doesnt feel attractive , IMO. She has allowed the troubles in Your M, to make her feel this way.
I get hit on all the time { lately I dunno why ?}
and it doesnt help.... I alone need to make myself feel sexy and my Hubby needs to add to it too. For so long he was saying to me , you aren't good enough by his behavior. And I played right along with him... YUCK~
Give this time honey and keep loving yourself and her. Stop living in the past and forgive her too for not knowing what she is doing by not being the vixen you need.
If you forgave her and started fresh?
What would you do different? Would it come off as ass kissing or just real and genuine cause you love her?
My H bought me A Caddy after one of his episodes... I hated that car!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I always pretended to like it and I hated it. It made me feel sick and repulsed.
