Advice-Husband moved in with OW(I'm a Newby)

[Trying2live]

Good Morning Everyone,
Just checking up on you all. Hey you know I only live 45 mins from my family but I don't really see them a lot during this time. I call or they call but that's it. But I see it as kinda of good thing. I don't really tell them too much because I figure in the end if we are able to restore our marriage it will be harder for them to forgive my spouse than it will be for me. So although you live far from family now it might be a good thing, at least just in case.
I think part of GAL is getting plugged in to some friends too. When I started taking Salsa lessons, I met a woman there and we back friends and hung out a few times together. So Girls/Guys sign up for something and get plugged in. I promise you it does help. At least for the time your in there your not thinking about your life and that's the best part.

Well this morning I got invited to get together with some women at a bible study. There is a woman who after 20 years of marriage just found out her H is having an A. She is very depressed and can't get out of bed. I think she is begging crying and all the unattractive stuff. I know what she is feeling but I am hoping I can share some of what all of us here are doing to reclaim our marriages and that its much more attractive.
Have a great day guys, I'll check in later...{{hugs}}