Treese:

Your h is so darned miserable that he is putting on a good front! He might file but that does not mean he will go thru with it.

He will find out that thousands of dollars will go out each month for child support, alimony, etc.

I sometimes think it takes one heck of a lot to get them to hit rock bottom. Reality of a D and the costs and affects of it have not sunk in yet. Just wait.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19