OK sent the email about pushing out the sessions...he's online but no response still:

"Hey there,
Would you prefer to push out tonight's 9 PM session or go ahead with it? I'll go with your decision on this one.
Thanks! Hope you're having a good day in windy Dublin."

So seems to me pretty low-pressure...To be honest I hope he says let's push it out so that I can give Jody the dirt on Monday's events. I also don't want to hear any spew from him about the day, as I suspect he will not be as (openly) positive as me. I think pushing out the session 1-2 weeks would be more positive for both of us. Anyway, ball's in his court now. I only hope that he decides to answer! How awkward would that be if he never responded?

ITH

Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!