I have been thinking a lot about you. Of course my main thought is that I wish you could see what we all do. We know that you are a good and caring person who didn't deserve what she got. You've also been a great support to so many of us here so I know that you have great empathy for others. So how can we help Donna?
Remember last spring and the beginning of summer when you were off the NYC and camping with the kids? Those were happy times for you, times when you knew what you wanted from your new life and a time when you were rebuilding the family. How can you get back there? To me that's the key.
Wallowing is ok and somewhat normal, but you can't do it for any length of time before it starts sucking you backwards and holds you there. You've got to get back on the horse and think about what brings YOU joy. I remember that you were joyful and you were all over the board spreading it around. Find your way back to that place.
We all love you Donna and we all want to see you happy and confident once again!