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Hi tal-

How nice to hear that you had some quality "alone" time with your H. Probably just what you both needed.

I'm sorry that I haven't kept up much. How is your H doing? How is his vision?

I'll check on you tomorrow. I'm smiling for you!!

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(((Tal))),

I can bet you got him to no longer even think about his eyes for a change. I am extremely happy for you two to get such precious time together, alone even is beyond fantastic.

Just like Sue said, I too am smiling ear-to-ear for you!


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So good to hear this, Tal! I'm very happy for you and your H!

Enjoy your time together - every precious moment counts. \:\)

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Sounds terrific, TAL! Just remember - you got here by doing the right things, so keep on doing them! \:\)


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Ok Tal...

No fair, PLEASE pass some of your Mojo my way.... I need that "alone time" with my W... Maybe soon... Great to hear your H eye is better but then agian he could find his way around just feeling things.....

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(((((sues,nocodes,gf,rob&dr.love))))

Thanks!

Sues-He's doing fine, Eye is getting better thanks! ;\)

nocodes- yes it was wonderful, even if it was only 2 hours, We made it count!

Gf- Your right every moment is crucial.

Rob- Thanks for the vote of Confidence!!

Dr. Love - I will send some vibes your way my friend. He didn't have any problems with finding his way!!

Things have still been good. He's getting a bit stressed with work, but hasn't taken it out on me like he usually does.

Everything is work in progress.

Tonight is meet the teacher.. should be interesting. H can't be there, he's up north working, but Im sure I will have something good to tell you all. \:\)

Thanks for the well wishes!!


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TAL,

I'm so glad you are having a wonderful reunion!

Hugs, Yoyo




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Yay TAL!

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Especially since he got hurt and I wasn't there for him physcially.


Remember when you were so angry at FIL for not caring for him correctly? I know he has had trouble following directions but I wonder if you were very frustrated because you couldn't be there yourself, caring for him? Hmmm....

Anyway, you GO GIRL! Enjoy! So glad to read about your hibernation!

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Hey Lwb \:\)

The issue with his father was worse than I thought. He got into details with me about how unattentive and uncaring he was. He said he didn't want to tell me too much because he knew how upset I was already. But the fact that he didn't give him antibiotic for the first two days of leaving the hospital is just unacceptable. His father is known to pull things like this, for no reason. H has given his SO many chances. I know that a lot of H's shortcomings are due to the way his parents brought him up. Lots of problems there.

I could really care less if I ever saw the man again. he lives in florida, and that's where his drama will stay!

Anyways, things are moving along. Thanks for the support!! \:\)


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morning Tal

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