And your right D does hurt/effect the kids. So many of the MLC'rs and their OW/OM believe that the kids will be just fine, that they will adjust. My H has said the very same thing. Well how easily he forgets how hard it was for me. My parents D when I was 13. F married his OW. I got along fine with her but was always second best to her 2 daughters. H was there he knows. And yet...he is doing the same to his own...
D17 can't take much more hurt and rejection right now. I definately am not pointing out that dad did not call. She is old enough to make up her own mind about him. I am doing my best to stay out of the R with him and the girls.
I've been there in their shoes, I know. If only I could protect them if he ends up with his OW.
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
