I am focusing on my kids...and my lawyer set up a parenting schedule in which I am the primary every other weekend as well as two nights a week. It is going to be tough since I am a lawyer working many hours as well as th fact that I just started a new practice group at a large firm earlier this year. Nevertheless, I am now extremely determined.
I have also scheduled meetings with my childrens teachers for later this week. My eldest daughter also began seeinga school social worker. She blames herself as she beleievs since it was her sleep away camp which my wife had "found herself" as well as the OM. I told her otherwise, and that this has been going on way before the Summer. I am trying to get more involved with the schools as my wife has been a big player in the PTA and knows all the teachers, principal et al.
Due to my increased involvement with the kids, my wife fears my seking sole custody. I have reassured her otherwise, but I must be prepared for every contingency.
Also, my wife wants to start dating already and is upset that her attorney told her to cool it. She was also hoping that I would have been more liberal and would be dating myself. I told her otherwise, indicating that my sexual desires are zero for the first time since I was 13 years old and that I am focusing on me and the kids for now.
I am amazed that she wants to date soo soon. I guess her denials of having other relationships is just is a lie, and a defensive mechinism. She really has mentally disappeared. She is focusing on herself, and not even the kids. That is what I fear most---as she is supposedly a stay home mom.
I am having a minor surgical procedure today. She initially offered to take me and stay the morning and bring me home. I politely refused her offer and my mom is taking me. Again, she offered yesterday to take me, which I find strange, as for the past several weeks she wanted absolutely nothing to do with me. Guilty?? or something else???
