Hey glam- The conversation didn't really go that bad...it was just his reacting to my disappointment. I believe part of his problem is that he doesn't like to disappointment me so when he feels he has, he either gets defensive or tries to placate me somehow.
Yeh, I admit I had an expectation of spending a little bit of time with my H last night. We discussed both of our reactions to the situation and I think we came up with some better ways of dealing with it but I'm not sure it makes a whole lot of difference. Even though my H says he won't let his D run his life, I know the fact that she doesn't like me will always be an issue for us. I could handle it before when I knew I was a priority to my H...now he is his priority...and rightly so, his D is too.
