My H left last August. From mid June on he started to really act weird. Detach from me. That July he didn't want to have sex. We went on a family vacation at the end of July and it was AWFUL. He had become the alien.
Prior to the total breakdown it was like walking on eggshells around him for maybe 6 months prior. I got pregnant with our third and it really put him over the edge. I knew he didn't want anymore but I didn't care.... I always thought I could do whatever I wanted and he would never ever leave me. He is a very traditional, dependable kind of a guy. His stability is what attracted me to him.
Anyway when his law practice started to do poorly he just couldn't take the pressure anymore and he wasn't communicating with me. I tried to make things fun but he was already slipping away from me. In retrospect I can see that now.
