((( Donna ))) Just adding hugs and support- It made me so sad to read your posts, believe me I think most of us here would read it and nod our heads, you said so many things I have said , exactly!
Ellie is so right, look at all these great people on the board! YOU being one, as hard as it is to shake the feeling that it is something we must of done,or we are not as good- it is NOT the truth- ( I still have those feelings so I so understand how you feel)
I will tell you - I felt exactly the same way 4 yrs ago when ex hooked up w/ his GF- why her? whats wrong w/ me?? just like you have, and 2 yrs ago when t hey moved in together, I was crushed. He said he wanted to be alone!!!??? Well this weekend my ex moved out from OW- stating the exact things to her as he did to me. I was floored and here I thought it was me! 4 yrs and 2 living together the blush is gone from that rose! as it always is. How can a R like that last? or at least last happily?
Whatever happens w/ them and who cares, You will be ok Donna, you are SMART, thats obvious from your thread, you are sweet, and a terrific mom. We dont always see eye to eye w/ our loved ones, but they love us and visa versa.
(((( Donna ))) hope you feel better soon and we all love ya!
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life