Hi Rjj, Is your H still living at his parents house??
Dotto,
My husband got so angry at me that I thought the veins in his neck would burst from screaming. He was a very passive person and he held it all in then he exploded at me. He would scream and yell at the kids also and then leave the house with them crying daddy please stay.
It seems like a million years ago in a way as his good attitude continues. We spent the weekend together. Friday I saw Bruce Springsteen and he called me to see if I was going to sleep home. Now that we are sleeping together I don't think he can handle me dating.
On Saturday night we went out to dinner with his friends and I asked him to be my husband for the night and handed him his ring which has been off for the past year. He said yes and put it on. I did find out that he put it back in his jewelery box which hurts but hey when he is ready then he is ready. We spent all day Sunday and Sunday night together.. He talks about our house and doing this or that. He worked on the house also. When he was in his crisis he didn't lift a finger. The kids really wanted him to stay . It is uncomfortable for me when he goes but I am also used to being alone???
The baby is getting antsy so I will write back soon.