Lis, when your wife is moved out of the house and you have minimal contact with her, and you know she is giving herself to another man, it sure is hard to keep the goal in sight.
Believe me.
When she was here at home, you know how hard I was fighting for her. I always considered myself the romantic and strong in what I wanted, but I KNEW that once she moved out, things would change. Total different game plan.
That silk thread that I have talked about before? It is the hope that I still hold onto. A thread. A strong thread, but still a thread.
Everyone that knows me on this board knows what I still want. I may be all over the damn place, but everyone knows. I want the woman I fell in love with, but I think she died. The thing occupying my wife's body....don't know about her.
Dub wants me to turn my thread into a rope again. AT wants me to drop the thread completely. What... 90 percent of my posts still involve me talking about the wife.
Both of them want to kick my ass for the alphabet girls.
My sitch has made me as loopy as one can get. Loco.
But don't I SOUND much better?
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."