House is on the market...

[phbear316]

Hi W2G

Thanks for coming by my stitch, so I decided to return the post

Good for you with the job..and I have my fingers crossed you get the deal your happy with in reguards to selling the house.

How is D doing? good I hope.

Yes, h confuses the heck out of me. I dont know why he has not filed. I am getting closer and closer, I am pushing myself to call my lawyer to ask a few questions in reguards to if I leave the house where does that put me. I have co-worker asking about a vacant apt where he lives. It would be a perfect price 950 a month which is in my budget. And the other question is will he take payments towards filing the divorce work.

I want my own freedom more and more, I can't even say h and i make good room mates for that is a joke. Room mates dont do each others laundry.

Some say I should just stay and wait out h, for how long.....i want to be let go. I cannot wait till he decides h or ow has had enough of this and he finally files, for what i have heard in my state (nj) you need to have separate addresses for 18 months. I cannot wait till next year or when ever the feeling moves him to file or move out and then reset the clock for another 18 months of waiting.

I want my own life, I feel i dont have that now I am tired of spending my time confined to my bedroom, I want to sit on my couch, leave or clean up after myself when I want to. This is getting crazy.

what i don't understand with h is, he has a place to go, live with ow GO. But for some reason he will not leave.. ..

Someone has to make the first move and Its getting closer and closer to being me.

Well sorry I have hijacked your stitch with my problems and I am sorry for that.

Keep your head up high W2G

and I will keep you in my prayers!!

BIG HUGS

(((((bear))))