House is on the market...

[LolaL]

That mantis shrimp looks toooo much like a scorpion for me to eat. I have a deathly fear of scorpions (AND I live in the desert...go figure!!!)

[transformer]

Where,

Congratulations on the job-interview!!! that was such good advice to approach it like you're approaching the house & the other things you want to sell. What about the interim position potential?

I hope you are having so much fun this weekend with lil' w!

LOVE
T

[addie]

W2G,
Good luck with your decision re the job. It may be something you want to do for the interim but continue to look for another more suitable position. In any case, you have a lot to deal with right now with the sale of your house and possible move.
Hope you have a great weekend!

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Where,

Hows things with you? Did you take the job? Thanks for your kind words on my thread before, I meant to tell you at the time, but got a bit distracted in a well of misery, tsk, rubbish ole me. I hope things are as good or better your end,

Al xxx

[W2G]

Hello Everyone,

Just an update about what's going on in my world.

Firstly, D3 and I are doing fine.. she's going to daycare 3 times a week now as I started working part-time last week. She's being a real trooper. I know getting up at 6am isn't easy for her but she's been wonderful. I'm so thankful.

So yeah, I took that job with my former colleagues. I feel like I've got too much on my plate at the moment but I know that will ease once I get the processes under my belt. Just takes time to familiarize myself with programs I'd never used before. I actually spoke to my boss today (after 3.5 days on the job) and told him that I respected that it was a small outfit and money was tight.. but that if they landed the big deal they are working on I would very much appreciate it if a raise would be in my future. I explained that I no longer have a pension now that I'm working for this smaller company and with the wage I'm making, although it's much better than minimum wage, doesn't allow me to save for my future (and D3's) or to be completely self reliant since H and I split. Needless to say he seemed uncomfortable.. didn't say no but also didn't say he would think about it. He said that if I found something more suitable financially for me.. that he would completely understand if I had to take it. So that was that! I felt good about the fact that I addressed it right upfront. I'm not the confrontational type at all.. so it wasn't easy for me.. but I've learned through the crap this year that the only person I can count on to take care of me is me!

I have to tell you that I read some really good books while I was away from the boards. They were the Twilight Saga..... and OMG I loved them. I read through all 4 of them sooooooo fast!!!!! Now I'm just sad that I'm done. I picked up "The Host" which is also by Stephanie Meyer (she wrote the Twilight Saga) but haven't been able to get past the first 5 or 6 pages. Just isn't as fascinating I guess.

Please send out some positive vibes to assist me in the sale of my home! I'm practicing "The Secret" and have told myself that my house sold this week... So now it's out there for everyone to read.. it's bound to happen.

I did manage to sell my treadmill. They'll be back to pick it up on Saturday.. so the house (which I told you will sell/sold this week) and the air hockey table are the only big ticket items I have hanging over me home wise!!!

I have been trying to read all the threads of my friends on here.. but for some reason I just am at a loss for things to say at the moment. Sorry about that! But I am there and reading..

Hugs and kisses.. and thanks for reading!

W2G

[JenInVen]

Ahhh there's my favourite Torontonian

[transformer]

Where,

I"ve been wondering where you've been!! congratulations on your job!!! and selling the treadmill!

I am visualizing you joyfully handing over the deed to your house...

LOVE
T

[phbear316]

Hi W2G

Thanks for coming by my stitch, so I decided to return the post

Good for you with the job..and I have my fingers crossed you get the deal your happy with in reguards to selling the house.

How is D doing? good I hope.

Yes, h confuses the heck out of me. I dont know why he has not filed. I am getting closer and closer, I am pushing myself to call my lawyer to ask a few questions in reguards to if I leave the house where does that put me. I have co-worker asking about a vacant apt where he lives. It would be a perfect price 950 a month which is in my budget. And the other question is will he take payments towards filing the divorce work.

I want my own freedom more and more, I can't even say h and i make good room mates for that is a joke. Room mates dont do each others laundry.

Some say I should just stay and wait out h, for how long.....i want to be let go. I cannot wait till he decides h or ow has had enough of this and he finally files, for what i have heard in my state (nj) you need to have separate addresses for 18 months. I cannot wait till next year or when ever the feeling moves him to file or move out and then reset the clock for another 18 months of waiting.

I want my own life, I feel i dont have that now I am tired of spending my time confined to my bedroom, I want to sit on my couch, leave or clean up after myself when I want to. This is getting crazy.

what i don't understand with h is, he has a place to go, live with ow GO. But for some reason he will not leave.. ..

Someone has to make the first move and Its getting closer and closer to being me.

Well sorry I have hijacked your stitch with my problems and I am sorry for that.

Keep your head up high W2G

and I will keep you in my prayers!!

BIG HUGS

(((((bear))))

[stella_k]

Dearest ((((((Where))))),

I missed you!

I can be soooo dumb sometimes, it's not even funny

I finally realized who is NL on FB!!!

Your D is so adorable and you're lovely, exactly the way I imagined you'd be!
And - I saw your artworks and loved them!

Good job on getting a job, BTW.

(((HUG)))

[stella_k]

Dearest ((((((Where))))),

I missed you!

I can be soooo dumb sometimes, it's not even funny

I finally realized who is NL on FB!!!

Your D is so adorable and you're lovely, exactly the way I imagined you'd be!
And - I saw your artwork and loved it!

Good job on getting a job, BTW.

(((HUG)))