Sure...I agree. The first or second time. Over and over again with no good result can make it worse.
How specifically would you have us react then? What would be the DB way of handling this?
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Not all of that if any of it actually happened. I don't remember all the details but I know there was no grapefruit. He spills his thoughts. Many folks do that. Recently there was someone much more vocal and violent...and on this forum. I rarely got a notice about him.
You are correct. The grapefruit issue was that he wanted to shove grapefruit in his W's face but didn't. He then suggested that it would be ok for someone (Husband / Boyfrind) to do this to his D. I believe what he said was that if she deserved it, it was fine with him. Even if the act did not happen, it is still unacceptable behaviour.
Regarding other people, I have been away for a while and cannot speak about people I have not interacted with. I can only speak about people I have interacted with.
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No one was criticized. It's an observation that what most of us were doing with him wasn't working.
I agree, anything anyone said that was not in agreement with his behaviour did not work. I was slammed for disagreeing with him, I was slammed for suggesting a possibility for a schedule. I was slammed for agreeing with Frank. Unless we "touched his heart" by patting him on the back, we were slammed. This is why I ask, what specifically would you suggest?
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
