Abbey, I haven't posted to you before but your thread caught my eye. This development is so exciting and you are handling it so well!!!!
One thing jumped out, how you wanted to celebrate your new stablity but were concerned it might come off as boring. Have you read "passionate marriage" by david schnark? the title is a little simplistic, but one of the main ideas is that the more stable we are within ourselves, the wilder the sex can be
I am nowhere near your phase.... having only had a few "minimal contact hugs" with my WA. But one thing I'm excited to try, in the future, given the chance, is some super hot lingerie. Would you be comfortable with that? For me I've found some things I would have been hesitant to try before, but nothing that makes me uncomfortable. does that make sense??? Just a little visual 180... maybe even a super hot bra strap. You know what Im' saying??
