FG this is how some of the convos started with my h. He wouldn't show or call then sent an e-mail or something saying sorry he didn't call or something.

It's all in the way you handle it. I started responding something like h thanks for the e-mail. Glad to hear you went out and somewhat enjoyed yourself. Let me know when you want to see D or something like that FG. Oh and you are biting your tongue raw BTW.

When your h doesn't feel attacked when he doesn't do something expected is when he might make more of an effort.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"