FG this is how some of the convos started with my h. He wouldn't show or call then sent an e-mail or something saying sorry he didn't call or something.
It's all in the way you handle it. I started responding something like h thanks for the e-mail. Glad to hear you went out and somewhat enjoyed yourself. Let me know when you want to see D or something like that FG. Oh and you are biting your tongue raw BTW.
When your h doesn't feel attacked when he doesn't do something expected is when he might make more of an effort.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
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