Actually the handle came from the Pearl Jam song, but the song itself has no relevance for me or my situation. It's basically my own moniker for the "better man" I became after all of this forced me to take a good, long, hard look at myself and undo alot of what I had done to myself over the years.

Plus if she can't see this, she doesn't deserve this man.


M:42
W:38
D:9
S:6
married: 15+
together: 12.5
Bomb dropped: 4/18/05
Back together: 9/30/07
In trouble again: NOW