Actually the handle came from the Pearl Jam song, but the song itself has no relevance for me or my situation. It's basically my own moniker for the "better man" I became after all of this forced me to take a good, long, hard look at myself and undo alot of what I had done to myself over the years.
Plus if she can't see this, she doesn't deserve this man.
M:42 W:38 D:9 S:6 married: 15+ together: 12.5 Bomb dropped: 4/18/05 Back together: 9/30/07 In trouble again: NOW