To all of my new friends on piecing. I have posted on newcomers and mid life this past year. Bomb dropped last August 3 kids 10, 8 and 2. Married 11 years together for 17 one day here the next day my H was living at a clients house. No other woman involved. Mid life all the way. Tons of anger and meaness everything was my fault.
Last Sunday after months and months of leading up to renewing our R my H and I made love. And then again and again and again. And then he went away with us this past weekend as a family. He still hasn't moved home but all signals are go.
I am going very very slowly and feel very strong. I have had a wonderful therapist who my husband just started with last month and I really got my act together in every way. I am very happy and have a great job. Although it is hard to admit this past year has been a gift to me no matter how hard the pain was to endure.