Do you know that even after all the things he said to me last night, he has told bff that he wishes that it was different, that we could be friendly at least to co-parent? That it could have been different if I had been different. I guess he means completely accepting of all of it. Friendly? How?
Wow, he is a piece of work. I guess him having an affair, walking out on you, and saying all of those horrible things to you have nothing to do with the way things are now?! Your X is like mine, so personal responsibility. They can't see that their actions also effected the relationship. Nope, it is always our fault, they did nothing wrong.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
