The wife and I have told each other that we wouldn't keep each other from the kids. If I want to see them, I can. Vice versa. If she wants to see them, she can. If something comes up, like a party or something, then I believe that we can be flexible.

Of course, we have just started this journey of separation. So far, she has kept her word. Same for me, like when D6 wanted to go back home with her on Sunday, I let her.

So far things are working out as far as the kids. For the most part at least.

I guess if she were to be acting like a biatch most of the time, it would be easier to stick to something. Your H's usually are acting like ass's anyway. Makes it easier I reckon.


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."