Onedge, I'm not so familiar with your situation, but this seems like a very common action of a WAS. They don't want the responsibility of carrying all the guilt, so they need a way to make the LBS look less desirable or look like the bad guy. They need to find reasons to justify their actions.
So i guess ignoring how she acted and not mentioning it is good for my cause then? I managed to not say anything to her about it while i was there, and haven't done anything rash since. I'm telling myself that i'm not going to bite, I can wait untill we actually have a better relationship/friendship before I start telling her how I feel. At the moment, she doesn't share any of that sort of stuff with me, and it's not in my best interests to do that with her right now.
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