The 401k thing--you are still married to him and I know in my state, everything is split right down the middle. There is no reason why you shouldn't have given him financial tidbits about his plan. You were just giving him information not telling him what to do and that is a huge thing.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
