I think you're doing all the right things so far. What I would do about the wedding convo is ignore anything about your R that was mentioned, focus on details of the wedding, the bride's gown or whatever, how was the food at the reception, how the older relatives are getting along health-wise, even the travel there and back, etc. I'd completely ignore the remarks about no one mentioning how either of you are getting along, the nephew's father and his philandering, etc. I think you can't go wrong with that. It will show your interest in your nephew and family, but avoid R issues. Then, for good measure, I'd talk about your weekend and what you enjoyed, the storm, etc. so he knows you're GAL'ing and doing fine.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
