So many unanswered questions Treese, that is probably the hardest to let go of. I don't know if we'll ever find our answers, and finally today, they really don't matter so much to me anymore. Unfortunately none of it makes any sense, but it is what it is...

I wish there was something I could say or do to wash away your pain. Pain that I understand so well. There is nothing. Telling you it will get better is a lie. If it does, it's so damb slow you'll not notice for a long time. But I hope that it helps to know that there are so many here for you. To listen, to talk, to understand. We care about you and we hurt with you.

Be strong girl! You can do this...

LUV, TOH


M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!