Wow I agree twinhope! Sandi2 I really like this list can you come to my thread and post it or can I copy and paste it? Everyone on my thread would really really like this. Gives really great direction.
TwinHope just don't bottle your feelings. It does hurt bad! i cry at night when the munchkins are asleep or gone or my personal favorite-the shower. Then I pick myself and keep going, music really helps me or walking or going to gym or salsa lessons. I still have very sad moments and I let myself have them for a bit and then keep going. But it's amazing what singing along to your favorite music will do. And it always helps me to get things into perspective I have my kids(for now since there is exposure to the kids he does not want to have them around the OW because my kids wanna hurt her-sorry I guess it's normal??) anyways my kids are physically healthy and we have each other. Sorry for blabbing
Me-38 H-38 Married 18years Daughter-17 & Son-9 Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08 Moved in with OW 08/01/08
The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family. -- Lee Iacocca
