i love when the OP tries to tell you the truth

its my favorite

and

it gives you the opportunity to calmly (because they will be yelling) tell them they are fucktards and to shove it up their asses

heres hoping you get to say it

and

i have a little experience with abusive

you aren't abusive

misguided, maybe
thoughtless, sometimes (we all are)
fall asleep on the phone, for sure

but not abusive