So, my FIL calls me and gives me hell about the filing to stop Carrie from moving until she designates me as custodial parent. He won't listen to a word I say and tells me that I am being abusive. Then he tells me he won't be speaking to me again and hangs up on me. Nice.......
I sent him this email:
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Dad, I understand your frustration with things, and I am sorry that it came to this. However, you really haven't spoken to me in over 6 months anyway and do not know everything you believe you know.
You called me abusive, I disagree. You have absolutely no idea what has transpired over the last year. Carrie continues to blame me for the divorce not being final, but the reality is it is not done because her lawyer chooses to play games. He knew that mediation was needed to resolve this and yet continued to milk your daughter for money.
You believe that I should simply trust Carrie and not protect myself and my kids from possible repurcussions of her move, well tell me why I should trust her Jack, because I can't for the life of me figure that out. Her actions in the last 2 years do not justify trust on my part. Her actions in the last three weeks with our daughter/your grandaughter do not justify trust.
I will keep this brief and not go into it to deep. All that I will say to you is this, you do not know everything about what has happened. You merely hear what you want to make this all go away. Your acceptance of Carrie's relationship with the man she had an affair with tells me that you don't care about the truth. The man I know and respect would not support such actions. 2 families were destroyed because of this relationship, and you are supporting it? I would have never thought you would and I know that if this was Judy doing this to you, you would behave quite differently.
So for now, you hear what you want to hear, you believe what you want to believe, and you put your morals and ethics aside simply because it is your daughter. I respect that you love Carrie very much and this is what you need to do right now.
If you ever choose to have a real discussion with me where you actually listen to what I say, i will be glad to do so. Until then, take care of yourself and the family.
Now I will wait for round three. Not sure what the hell that will be,maybe OM will want to give me a piece of his mind
