Jgrind, Kick boxing! Yesssss! That's a start of GAL! Very proud of you. And going to church very good too! My kids and I have been at the same church for 14years and it has helped me and the kids. Its brought strength and stability to the kids as well. My children have learned to lean on Christ even through this. I have a bigger story. But I did not want to include it in my post as I wanted anyone to chime in and feel welcome and I thought including it might interfere with that. To top my story off, my husband and I are associate Pastors at our church, I am a worship leader. I thought I would be immune from Adultery but I found out no one is. The man I used to know and the one I know now are 2 different people. Yes he had anger issues on occasion and he drank but never went loony. He just cracked, I guess. I guess that's what makes it even harder for close friends because they loved him. Now his reasoning is completely gone, he accuses etc etc you now the drill.
Funny mine started drinking a lot when he was hiding it after the 1st sexual encounter. He said to me I had to drink to kill the guilt of what I was doing to you but the more I drank the less I felt for you and the more I felt for her. I really think the drinking thing has a big part in this. A really big part. I'm not opposed to a nice glass of wine or an occasional fruity drink, but I never drank daily-he did. So what was the cause of the marriage situation now? Was it the affair or did he just say he was leaving? Tell me about your marriage story... and by the way jump in any time the more the merrier
Me-38 H-38 Married 18years Daughter-17 & Son-9 Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08 Moved in with OW 08/01/08
The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family. -- Lee Iacocca
