Advice-Husband moved in with OW(I'm a Newby)

[twinhope]

Hope, If your MC says the letter is a good idea then that is the way to go. I wrote a letter it was kind of a goodbye letter. Accepting my fault and understanding his pain and thanking him for my beautiful girls and having no regrets only that he can not believe in us. I so want to give it to him. I can only imagine how much it hurts to hear your H's plan. H has not asked me for a D ever. Our C has told him that if it is what he wants he needs to be able to look me in the eye and ask me. We have to remember that it is not over and that we don't know what the outcome will be. Believe nothing he says and ignore 1/2 of their actions. They are in a fog and we have to believe that. Young or old the OW are not good people to be going after married men and how great it would be for our H's to return hope and give them what they deserve. They are getting the best of our H's right now but that can change. I will continue to pray for all of us. I am glad that I have found this thread it really helps. By the way I moved away from my family as well. We have no family here and it is so hard. Keep your head high and keep up your 180's and GAL it will only make us stronger! I heard that too about the each month of marriage. Hang in there I know I will be here to help support and try to keep us sane. I think my M is worth it and I hope you do too!